The basic:

“Massage, full service and casual companion” are at the core of what I do – although you are totally in charge and set the agenda in the offing. Essentially, exact pre-analysis is pointless in 95% of appointments as it will flow naturally from a mutual understanding, where your satisfaction is the primary goal (explicitly acknowledged or not). Need to know how things might work financially? See rates, as this is the one non-negotiable aspect!

I’m a frequently and positively reviewed “male for male” provider who is also bi/versatile (physically, not emotionally compatible with the opposite sex). This allows me to have plenty of fun with couples of any gender combination.

Strengths:

I connect well with customers whose needs are basic – firmly within the massage/bfe bracket unless otherwise negotiated (i.e. FF/WS/HS).

I prefer to see a small number of customers for 1-3 hour periods at private locations such as my own apartment or local hotels, and I confirm all of my arrangements with a phone call or securing deposit. Clear communication and a quality over quantity approach are values I project and appreciate.

On my side, I do not agree to requests that I am incapable of fulfilling, meaning that you get best use of our time.

As well as being versatile and approachable, I am unusually reliable, and can be trusted with long-distance and regular arrangements such as travel deposit – with zero dispute record and all documentation provided on request.

I am able to work with customers who have basic needs (step wise experimentation) or require a more advanced bfe. I can give honest and straightforward guidance and advice on the technical aspects of pleasure giving, but will only do this if requested. Heaven forbid, I would never associate myself with anything as vapid and painfully “Channel-4” as being a glib-lib “sex coach”!

I have years of experience working with customers with hawk-eye spouses, public profiles (or connections to high-sensitivity public organisations), disabilities, weight problems and over the pensionable age.

Caveat:

While I am very capable of playing to abstract fantasies, the more friendly of my client-provider relationships are underpinned by a sense of simplicity and realism. I have plenty of experience catering for the less confident, however, crippling insecurity and emotional neediness are traits that will give me justifiable cause for taking a more distant approach, or to outright reject a lead. Over time, one learns the false economy of taking on work that is too much like work – unfortunately I attract my fair share, and lose a lot of business flag-spotting. In exchange for that lost business, I do preserve my sanity; everything has a value.

So in this spirit…

It is important that if you have any requirements that are out of the ordinary, you can describe these fluently during the first phone conversation. I am likely to disregard leads that are “furtive” or “fragmented” in such a way as to betray a general lack of reliability, aggressively problematizing (defensive) mindset, or inability/unwillingness to elaborate a particular set of expectations that I can not reasonably be expected to have prior knowledge of. While I’m adaptable, the onus to communicate is on you.

Further detail?

While I consider a pleasant and respectful exterior to be basic criteria for a customer, I actually favour an approach that gives zero weight to my own preferences. To be brutally honest, I’m providing a service, and you are paying to get exactly what you want. If that’s a fake boyfriend with a preloaded shopping list, there are plenty to choose from…

A request is negotiated and evolves from an understanding, so there is no need to get bogged down before contacting me…

HOWEVER: If you still want small details like what I carry to appointments, my own preferences and limitations – please see here.